Breaking Tradition – The New Wave of Bridal Veils

Veils have long been a bridal staple for centuries, symbolising everything from tradition to mystery. However, nowadays, more and more brides are ditching that classic look for something a little less “traditional” and a whole lot more personal. Instead of the long, flowing veil that’s been the go-to for years, today’s brides are getting creative and choosing accessories that speak to their unique style. 

But why is this? And if you’re a bride thinking of steering away from the traditional path, what can you do instead of a veil?  

The decline of traditional veils 

In the past, if you were a bride, you probably just picked up a veil without a second thought. It was a must-have accessory after all. But not so much anymore. 

One big reason brides are skipping the veil is that they’re putting more focus on their hairstyles. It's not even about what’s on their heads, it’s more about the hairstyle itself. Brides want their hair to be the showstopper, so the veil often becomes an afterthought or ditched altogether in order to allow the hair to have its moment! 

Some brides would also just rather save the money on a veil and spend that money on something else altogether. Whether it’s investing more in the wedding reception or splurging on something else they really want, they’re moving on from the veil. One bride even joked she was “saving money for the drinks” instead of a veil!  

The rise of custom and alternative veils 

While traditional veils might be losing their grip, there’s a big rise in custom veils and non-traditional options. Brides aren’t just settling for whatever they find in a store, they’re going for designs that are completely their own. And at Lily’s we’re so here for it! 

We’re talking some seriously cool stuff too. Think shocking pink veils with flowers scattered all over for a 70-year-old bride, or a bold black veil with lace appliqué for a gothic-inspired wedding. Some brides are even choosing veils that match their dresses down to the tiniest detail, like a two-tiered pink veil with floral accents.  

At Lily’s, we can create custom veils to match your dress and vision. After all, we want you to be able to wear something that is as unique and beautiful as you are!  

Tips for brides thinking about their veil 

So, if you’re a bride-to-be who’s thinking about skipping the traditional veil or going for something more custom, here are some things to keep in mind: 

Think about the overall vibe of your wedding day 

Your veil (or headpiece) should tie into the look and feel of your wedding. Is your style romantic, boho, minimalist, or bold? Your veil should complement your dress, hairstyle, and the overall theme of your big day. 

Don’t wait too long for custom designs 

If you’re going for something unique and custom, make sure you give yourself plenty of time. Custom veils can take weeks (sometimes months!) to create, so you’ll want to get started early so there’s no rush. 

Explore non-traditional options 

If the classic veil isn’t speaking to you, try thinking outside the box. Floral crowns, chic headbands, or cool hairpins can be just as fabulous as a veil—plus, they can be even more personal to your style. 

Don’t let your veil overshadow your dress 

The veil should complement, not compete with, your wedding dress. If your dress is intricate and detailed, a simple veil might be the way to go. But if your dress is simpler, that’s when you can go all out with a bold, statement-making veil. Of course, this is just a general rule of thumb, if it doesn’t feel right for you, you don’t have to stick to it! 

Veils or alternatives — it’s totally up to you 

At the end of the day, it’s all about what feels right for you. If you’re in love with the idea of a traditional veil, great! But if the classic look isn’t for you, that’s totally fine too. The key is finding something that makes you feel amazing on your wedding day. 

For those who’ve always dreamed of wearing a veil, it’s a great time to explore new options. The veil has evolved from just being a traditional symbol to becoming a personal statement of style. Whether you go for a classic veil or something a bit bolder and more custom-made, it’s all about making it your day, and making sure your bridal look reflects who you are. 

So, if you’re considering a shocking pink floral veil, a moody black lace one, or something totally off-the-wall, remember this: Your wedding day is all about celebrating you. Don’t be afraid to step away from tradition and wear something that feels like the best version of you. 

Need help finding your dream wedding dress or wedding accessories? Book an appointment with our friendly team, we’d love to help!